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Hey Dan:

Technology is changing a lot of things - even the way we ‘visit’ each other. I hope to be of service to you in this season to love you and your family well through this. This site is just a way to keep your community of friends aware of your progress. So many cherish you that I could never reach them all, but this site will create a collecting spot for information and well wishes. As you share with me your plans and needs, I will post them here in as much detail as you release me to.

You are a warrior and we have been through some tough battles together, even though none were like this. Keep the faith - God still has many plans for you, my friend.

Dan,
You’re in my prayers. I have greatly admired your walk through life. You truly are an inspiration to me. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you.
523-5610

David Ragland

Dan:
Having been through a similar event as yours, (mine was colon cancer back about 40 years ago), I know what you are going through. I was able to beat mine and you can too! Remember the adage…A Winner NEVER Quits and a Quitter NEVER WINS! You are one of the true winners I have met and you WILL WIN this battle. You will WIN because you have a great family and a super group of friends who are on your team pulling with you.
You are a special guy and one that is loved and respected by more than you will ever know.
Hang in there friend and let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
With much love and admiration,
Larry

Larry Perry larryperry@att.net

Dan,

Brigham left me a message on my machine and this link on my e-mail. I guess bad news travels fast! But the good news is the more we know, the more we know what to pray for specifically.

Right now, we are going to pray for a great big miracle — God works in that department all the time!! We will also pray for wisdom, Godly doctors, guidance, and peace for you and your family.

Please let us know what else to add to our list!!

Katie V.

Katie Vandergriff kuv123@comcast.net

Dear Mr. Healed:
I call you healed b/c Jesus paid a great price for your healing (Is 53:5, Matt 8:17, 1 Pet 2:24) and I call those things that be not as though they are (Rom 4:17). Abraham was called the father of nations b4 it was manifested. I called you healed. Acts 10:38 declares Jesus went about doing good and healing all that were oppressed of the devil for God was with Him. God said in Ps 91 that he would satisfy you with looooooong life. I agree with Ps 118:17 that you will live and declare the works of the Lord. Keep the faith (faith is NOW - Heb 11:1) and speak to your mountain (Mark 11).
Prayer Warrior in Florida

Dorothy Gribble floridadorothy@gmail.com
Lakeland, FL
United States

Hi Dan,

You are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you health and peace.

Ben Finane

Dan
I was saddened to hear about what is going on in your life. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for the many ways you have served the body of Christ. Now it is your turn to allolw those of us who love and respect you to serve you. Thanks for keeping us updated.

Beth

Hi Dan, you and I have never formally meet, but I have heard your name several times at Fellowship. (all good things) I just wanted you to know I am committed to praying for you. Thanks for allowing us the privilege to do so. Erik

Dan,

I haven’t seen you guys in years (probably since Rob’s wedding), but I heard about your diagnosis through a note Scott posted on Facebook and was shocked and saddened. You and your whole crew will be in my thoughts and prayers as you fight and win this battle.

Greg DePersio
Hendersonville, Tenn.

Dear Dan:

Just wanted to tell you that the body of Christ is praying for you and your family.

I will be lifting you up frequently.

With you.

Brad Brinson

“I’m trading my sorrow, I’m trading my shame. I’m laying it down for the joy of the Lord.
I’m trading my sickness, I’m trading my pain. I’m laying it down for the joy of the Lord. . .
I’m pressed but not crushed persecuted not abandoned
Struck down but not destroyed.
I’m blessed beyond the curse for His promise will endure
And His joy’s gonna be my strength.”

To a constant source of encouragement and support, may you feel the same coming back at ya!
Love and prayers to you and Jan and the boys!
Jenn and family

Dan,
I’ve always thought of you as one of the most blessed people I’ve ever met. You were one of the coolest dads in Oak Ridge and you have consistently served as an example of how a godly man should care for his family and all others he comes into contact with. While it is very disturbing that you have cancer, I refuse to believe that God is going to stop blessing you and your family now. I will earnestly pray for a full recovery and I’m confident God will grant it, because He has much more work for you to do. There aren’t enough humble and willing servants in this world and the harvest is as plentiful as ever. I believe that God will bring you through this to make your service even greater. In case I haven’t said it before, thank you for the role you and Jan have played in my life. I have truly been enriched by knowing your family.

Matt

Dan: we have only seen each other in person, and spoken, a few times, but I feel I know you through your sons. proverbs 17:6 says that the glory of sons is their fathers. Your sons have shared many stories of the faithful ways you have fathered them. so I know your sons have glory in the Lord because you are their father. I am praying fervently for healing in Jesus’ Name. May this season witness to God’s glory. May He give you strength in the pain, patience in the waiting.

Dan and Jan,

I have been praying for Dan since Kimberly gave me the news from Jordan on Tuesday. I hope to see your smiling face at church soon. I pray that God grants you a full and speedy recovery.

Dan (& Jan): We love you guys and are praying for you–first for your healing and also that you will be strengthened and comforted by God. We know that will be faithful to his character and his promises. We pray his promises for you. If there is anything we can do, please call. Love, Becky for the Jenkins Clan

Dan, Jan and family-We want you to know how much our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very challenging time. You are wonderful people and we will call on all who we know to pray for you,Dan, and the family, that you all may have extra strength and will always feel God’s presence and love while you go through this journey. From Carrie, Ron, Ashley and Brenden Van Bruwaene (Andrea’s sister/Scott’s sister-in-law, brother-in-law, niece and nephew)

“Dan the man” that is how we referred to you in student ministry… the man who always came through. You will come through this as well though in a different way. You will come through as gold — very shiny gold (cuz you’re already pretty shiny!).
Mike & I will be praying for you, Jan and your family. We are for you — better yet, Jesus is for you!
Wendy

Dan:

Remember first getting to know you over 20 years ago at Covenant Presbyterian working with the Jenkins’ family and the youth ministry. As an engineering student , you volunteered to show me around the robotics lab at ORNL and took a good part of your day to do this.

Fast forward more than 20 years and you are the Chairman of the BoD of our company where we count on your coaching for technical, business, and spiritual issues….that’s a pretty complete mentor.

Yesterday, we assembled the management team and put together a set of challenging 90 day goals for our company. At the close of the meeting, I shared with them that we would dedicate the achievement of these goals to you and they would be called the “DK challenge”.

Asked the team to remember that you are in the challenge of your life and we can use these challenging goals as a reminder to pray for you.

We’ll be praying…. unceasingly.

Jeff Bohanan

Hey Dan!
I hope you are feeling better! I am so sorry about what has happened! I hope that you get feeling better! I will keep praying for you. You were such an important part of RMS TSA, and we will miss you.

Lots of Love, Mary

Dan,
Our hearts and prayers are with you, Jan and your family. We will especially pray for clear direction next week as you meet with doctors, and most of all for your healing! May God’s peace and comfort be ever so near.
love,
Gary, Janet and family

Dan,

Dell and I are praying for you. We are so sorry you are having to go through this.

Love,
Dell and Linda Morgan

Dan,
May the God of peace be with you during this time. May he bring healing and complete restoration. May you feel his presence during each step and each day. John 14:27.

Love in Christ,
Rac and Sue

DANO, GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU, HE DID SO FAR IN YOUR LIFE. EVER SINCE IV MET YOU ,YOU WERE THE SMARTEST MAN I KNEW, ONE OF THE QUESTION THIS SITE ASKED FOR SECURITY REASONS WAS WHAT IS ONE PLUS ONE, I WAS THINKING OF CALLING YOU FOR THE ANSWER-REMEMBER THOSE DAYS ON MY BED.HAHA.AND YES ILL SAY IT DAN, YOU WERE THE BETTER WRESTLER. I LOVE YOU DAN, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTON,MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, GOD LOVES YOU , YOUR FAMILY LOVES YOU AND I LOVE YOU, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF.
YOUR FRIEND FOREVER

TYRONE

Dan Jan and family,

Dan & Jan,

My heart is sad but my God is all powerful. Know that you & all of your family are in my prayers. I am eternally grateful for the way you have touched my son’s life. Josh is a better person for having known you. Now I have an opportunity to really thank you by lifting you all up in prayer and believing God for a healing miracle in your life. To God be the glory, Karen Wiley

Dan,
Just heard about this today. Sandy and I are praying for you, Jan, and your family. Please let me know if you are at UT Medical Center - I’d love to meet and pray when you are there.
In Him,
Bob

Danny,
Paul, Sam, Anna, and I are all praying for you daily. I found this site when I checked my facebook account. (I hadn’t checked it in months.) Scott posted the information. I’m so glad he did. I like reading the prayers and Bible verses your friends have posted. We’ll be watching for the next prayer day you have at your house, and we’ll join in here in Indiana.
It is nice to read messages from all the people whose lives you have touched. Danny, you are the only man I have ever met who truly lives his life like Jesus meant all of us to live. From these posts, it’s obvious others see that too.

Kim

Hey Dan, Your faith has always been an inspiration for me. Your quiet example and care for me in my time of trouble has kept me whole and made me a better person. I will not be the first friend you think of in time of need — I have read their many words of concern. But, I hope at the end of the day I am the one you call on to help. I have a strong back and can carry a heavy burdon. Share yours with me. You and God will work out your care and your future is in his hands. Let me wash the car when it needs it, mow the lawn or go to the store. I can drive you to the doctor, read you the paper when you are recovering from therapy, and pick Jan up from the airport. Most of your friends have better pull with God than I do, their prayers will sustain you. I ask only that you let me serve your needs while you fight this curse. I admire you Dan and your faith sustains us all. With Best wishes and devotion, Paul

Dan, I just wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you face this cancer and treatment. We will ask for the Lord’s wisdom for your physicians and peace and strength for you and your family.
Much love,
Debby

Dan,

There are two memories of you that I have that are relevant to this note. The first is a not so happy one of the day when you were in court with us during the divorce. Despite my personal anguish, I remember that you also had no joy on your face when faced with the role you played in the process. I remember having compassionate that day for a good man caught in a bad situation with the rest of us. The second memory is a happier one. I remember when you first joined us at TRI and you were so convinced that God had this in your life’s journey and you were meant to be there. You weighed the options in leaving the “safe” environment of the Lab, but I don’t think you ever really doubted that God was directing your path. Certainly that journey was not what you imagined on that day but it turned out well in many ways and an education of a lifetime in others. Both situations sum up what I think of you and your life – a man who has lived an unwavering life of faith trying to show the love, joy, and compassionate of Christ to all in his path.

I am so sorry that your path has now led you to this dark trial but I am no less sure that you will show the glory of God through this path also. I love the chapter of Matthew 17 where Jesus is transfigured on the mountaintop at the start of the chapter and the story of having faith to move a mountain is at the end of the chapter. The point that remained with me is one I think is pertinent for you – whether you have to climb this mountain and put it under your feet (like at Macchu Picu) or whether the mountain is moved, God’s glory can be revealed either way the journey leads. I have two prayers for you – the first is the one that Jesus prayed for Peter that when he was sifted, his faith would not fail him (Luke 22:31). The second is Isaiah 43:2 that the fires and waters of this trial will not sweep over nor set you ablaze because the Lord your God is with you through it all.

I regret that Satan and our own failures in life have brought distance but I have appreciated the unconditional love you have shown Nina. I have also appreciated that Lee and I have been able to be a somewhat good “prodigal family” for Nina – not the one that God meant for us to be but redeemed for good nevertheless. She is growing up well in many ways and I am thankful for the people like you that have contributed to that.

I know a little of the man you are and it has been a blessing for me to write this word of encouragement to that effect (much easier for me than spoken!) I hope it is a blessing to you and one of many small blessings that God uses to stroke your cheek and remind you tangibly that He is with you each hour of this stage of life’s journey. Jesus came that we might have LIFE and have it abundantly – that is still His plan for you and I know, through faith, you will find the walk that carries you though this for His glory, your peace, and a joy that passes all understanding.

Your sister in Christ,
Martha Polston

Dan,
From our first meeting, I knew there was something special about you, but more specifically about how closely you held your relationship to the Lord. Through God’s grace, you have such a zeal to serve in the ways He leads you.
Now after getting to know you through Crown and Jeff, I realize I’ve been given a model. Your example has challenged, encouraged, and bred a jealousy in both Lesa and me to please to the Lord with obedience like yours. You live the life-A Servant of the Most High God–you are true to your title.
As I read the heart-level remarks poured out from those who love you and Jan, we are thankful the Lord’s allowed us the opportunity to pray for you. With hearts of gratitude, Lesa and I join you–hoping in the Lord. We commit daily to request healing and grace for you. And we will bring our requests with the full confidence that He is in control of this circumstance, that He is kindly disposed to us through Jesus, and that He will sustain and carry you and Jan with strength and mercy. We will recruit others to pray within our care groups and prayer teams at Cornerstone. We and others will lift many, many prayers.
If there is anything possible for us to do for you, Jan or the family, we would be honored.
Much love and respect,
Scott and Lesa

Dan,
We are believing God and His promises for you. Remember,
God is who He says He is
God can do what He says He can do
You are who God says you are
You can do all things through Christ
God’s Word is alive and active in you

Our Student Ministries at Fellowship Church have been blessed beyond measure by you, your love and your acts of service. You are a man of faith, hope and love. We are praying for you and we love you.

Alan Ramsey

Dan,
I’ve known you and your family since Kevin and I started thursday school at age 2. I love you and your family. I remember you bringing candy to lunch and giving it out, we still talk about you. I say that so you know how touched people were by your simple actions. When I think of you, I think of a servant. Thank you for always being willing to serve. Josh and I send all our love and prayers to you and your family.

Rachel

Just hear from Mike about your illness. Jackie went through a bout with cancer several years ago and we understand a little of what your are feeling. Due to God’s blessing she is a survivor and we will pray for the same outcome for you.

Hey Chief!
Man, are hearts are deeply struggling since we heard the news. You are in our prayers, and we love you very much.
You’re on my list of heroes! Praying for God to reveal Himself in really big ways!

Dear Dan,

I know Tom sent you an e-mail last night, but I also wanted to send one to you a smiley face Hey, who’s always laughin’ & jokin’ around in the family? It’s time to LIFT YOU UP and put a smile upon your face!

The “story” below is true and I wanted to share it with you:
It’s been six years since my father passed away from colorectal cancer - it seems like only yesterday. He had to have surgery to remove 7 inches of his colon. I remember keeping in touch with my Mom throughout this difficult time. I so desperately wanted to “cheer up” my Dad and just give him something to smile about.

He went into surgery very early that morning. While at home, I made a split-second decision to drive across the state to visit him in the hospital. I made a quick pit stop in town to pick up some balloons & flowers - anything to put a smile on his face.

Throughout the 3-hour drive, I wondered what I would say to him and soon I felt my nerves getting the best of me. Was I doing the right
thing? Would he even want visitors coming & going??

It seemed as though people were staring at me as soon as I pulled into the parking lot. I was quite nervous going into the hospital and, with a shaky voice, I asked the receptionist for my Dad’s room number. She smiled at me . . .

There were a lot of people still staring at me. Maybe I had something on my face . . .

They were also smiling, too, as I took the ride in the elevator. I even had a doctor talk to me and he mentioned that I should stop by the children’s ward if only for a few minutes! I tipped my hat to all of them as I made my exit . . .

Wow, I thought, everyone was so incredibly friendly, and soon the nerves just melted away - now, I was happy AND at ease!! That’s exactly where I needed to be . . .

I walked down 2 hallways before I found my Dad’s room. I didn’t just want to barge in, so I peeked in. At first, I saw my Mom sitting in a
recliner with her eyes closed - napping- perfect I thought. My eyes scanned over to Dad in the bed, also with his eyes closed. I tip-toed as
quietly as I could into the room. I have big feet . . .

Mom, being a light napper, woke up, but I didn’t say a word. I just waved & set the balloons/flowers down. Dad opened up his eyes.
At this point, I’d have to say that this is the best part of the whole thing - Mom & Dad did not know who I was . . . you see, I came to
visit the two of them dressed as “GOD’S CLOWN”!

I smiled at them, sat down on my Mom’s lap, and gave her a HUGE HUG. She said to me, “DO I KNOW YOU?” Well, I didn’t want to blow my cover right then, so I just nodded my head & winked

It was Dad who eventually figured it out, and when he did, as weak and tired as he was, a BIG SMILE appeared on his face - he was grinning ear to ear!

We all had a good laugh, but both of them could not believe that it was me under all of the clown makeup, hobo clothes, big clown shoes,
tiny clown hat, etc! All these years, they never saw me “all dressed up” as a clown.

During the afternoon hours, different nurses would pop in to check on Dad, all of them saying that the little ones in the children’s ward
would love to see me, and so I went & visited - wanting to put smiles on their little faces, too!

At the end of the day, I was so pleased that Dad had found some happiness & laughter.

I had figured out a way to make my Dad (and Mom) SMILE.

Dan & Jan - please let me know if “GOD’S CLOWN” can do anything . . . anything at all for you!!!

Keep smiling . . . keep the faith,

Lauretta

Dan, it has been awhile since we saw each other last, but we have several mutual friends. Bill Hamel and I are in the same men’s bible study group. You and your family are already in our prayers.
Jeff

Hey guys,

You have been on my mind and heart since I heard the news about your health. The verse that keeps coming to my mind is John 11:4… “This sickness is not to end in death, but for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified by it.” I know this was spoken in regard to Lazarus…but I am also prompted to pray this scripture over you and believe it is for you also.

In His Grip,
Toni

Dan,
This wonderful collection of notes is testimony to how many lives you have touched, and how many stories you’ve been a part of. You’ve certainly been a quiet yet powerful influence in my life. My heart is heavy with your news, yet very hopeful for you in His watchcare. He keeps bringing you to my mind, and my main prayer for you Dan is that you enjoy God in ever-increasing measure in these days…like never, ever before.

Warmly,
Brad

Dan &Jan,
Our thougts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. You are two of the strongest people that we know. You will handle this as you have everything else in life, with great grace and wisdom! You both are an inspiration to us and we will continue to lift you up before the throne of our Heavenly Father who loves you and cares for you!
Paula & Jere Watkins

Dan,
Even though I do not know you well…I have enjoyed my encounters. I still remember you and your son helping as Barnabus in Mexico in 2000. That is the first time I met you and I thought, “What a nice guy.”
Amor is praying for you. We are so blessed to have your passion and wisdom to guide us as we serve in Mexico.

you are in my thoughts and prayers
Andy Tatum

Just wanted you to know that brothers and sisters in Christ who’ve never met you before are lifting you up!
I’m glad there’s an opportunity to tell you that you’ve been a source of encouragement and a testimony of Faith in our sweet Father here in our community of Believers!
I’ve never met you, perhaps have never seen you either (altho, if you live in Oak Ridge long enough you rub elbows with nearly everyone in the walmart lines:D), but i’m proud to say your my brother in Christ and i’m enjoying seeing how Christ has been glorified through what you’re going through to this point. be blessed in this close time that you’re spending with Christ! To HIM be the glory forever and ever..
katey

Dan! we miss you so much in TSA!

You’re in everyone’s prayers and thoughts!

Tuesdays and Thursdays just aren’t the same without you happy optimistic personality filling the tech lab. I’m sure i speak for all the Robertsville TSA when i say that we miss you and you are where our prayers are at

Dear Dan and Jan,
Since Elizabeth Anne told me this news, I have not stopped praying for you. Please know that my whole school body here at Perimeter will be lifting you in prayer.
May our God, whose name is Jehovah Jireh, the Lord our Provider, and Jehovah Rapha, the Lord our Healer, be with you now and in the days to come.
By His Grace, Mary Hubbard

Dan,

I’m sorry you have this problem. But, if anyone can lick it you will. I know from all the years that we shared as doctor/patient that you possess the positive attitude, general durability and support structures that it takes to tilt the odds in your favor.

Tom Upchurch

Hey Dan,
I am so sorry to hear about this. You and every other Kuban I’ve had the privilege to meet have been the most thoughtful and caring individuals I have ever met. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Richard

Dear Dan and Jan,
We just wanted to thank you for giving us the opportunity to join with you in prayer! We are in constant prayer for your whole family and can already see how God’s holy name is being glorified and magnified through your experience! We are praying for a miraculous healing in your body!!

Love in Christ,
Robbie and Dabney Mason

Dan,
When Judy heard about you, she remembered Lida (one of her best friend’s) Father has pancredic cancer. Judy emailed her and Lida called her and ask that you call her Dad that you might get some encouragement for he has beat it. Ryland Hoskins and he lives in Nashville. She gave Judy 2 numbers, 615 385 1806
615 242 4750
If you don’t want to call I understand. You both are in my prayers daily. Joyce

3 John 2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

It’s God’s will that you be in health! Praise God!

Hi Dan, Just checking in. a little bird told me your news may be getting better and I am praying that result is the case. Never underestimate the power of prayer! By the way, I have brought in the reinforcements for you. I have Missouri Synod Lutherans praying for you now so with that fire power I know you will be feeling some relief. Send you my best Dan. Paul

Hey Dan! and Jan! and etc., !!!
First of all, Thanks to Scott for setting this website up. It really helps.
I’ve been reading the recent journal updates and sounds like you’re covering all the bases. Have you checked Chicagoland’s Cancer Treatment Centers of America at http://www.cancercenter.com –
I am sure you are feeling all our prayers, but most especially the prayers of Danielle and JoAnne. JoAnne’s class prays for you each morning. We know that God hears the children and with over 20 of them all praying at the same time, those prayers are probably resounding in you. Look for a card from JoAnne in the USPS.
We love you. TTFN

ML, T, D, J

Dear Dan and Jan,

May our God of hope continue to strengthen you as you courageously face each day and confidently place your trust in the Trustworthy One!

In Christ alone,
Roberta

Better Living Through Chemistry! The nutritional approach to providing a poor environment for cancer cells sure sounds feasible. Thanks, Lee, for enlightening us on the justification for each nutritional choice. This is good information to share with other friends and family trying to beat that ugly cancer. I must admit that my own analytical, engineer-type mind has never really trusted claims like this - - - until now.
Dan: good for you for keeping an open mind and exploring all avenues to kick this cancer!

OH DAN!! You’ve said it all…how powerful of God to even allow us to spend eternity with Him. I am now able to feel God’s love like I’ve never felt before due to you and your family. For that I will always be thankful…and the peace that passes all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus!

Dear Dan,

You have so many good friends and people who care about you. God hears their prayers. I believe in God and I know you do because you told me you did a long time ago. Trust in God now and remember what you have read and believed. He gives strength, help, rest and grace in times of trial and more importantly He gives His eternal love.

I will remember you in my prayers.

Steve

Dan, we’re missing you at TSA, but praying for your miracle. We managed the annual Cades Cove trip today, with beautiful weather on the first try. I’m hoping that’s a sign that your news from today’s testing will be equally beautiful.

Your focus is in the right place, and He will look out for you.

Hey Dan, Hope you remember us from Fellowship. We have moved to LaPlata, MD; it’s been two years now. I want you to know I continue to pray for our Fellowhship family. Ya’ll are forever in my heart. I pray for you and family asking Daddy’s perfect peace, endless courage, limitless strength and overflowing joy be yours. Certainly, different days bring different demands - may He fulfill them all for you and Jan. May your healing be swift and complete. Much love in Christ. Terry for all.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Thinking of you and Jan today and always!

Teri lux

Hey Dan, its Jazmin from TSA. I want to thank you for everything. For all the help and advice and for always putting a smile on my face and making TSA such a fun place to be. this year in construction we are going to get first at nationals, I promise. We love you! we are all praying for you.

~Jazmin

Dan the man! i hope youre feeling better. tsa isnt the same without you here. construction is going good and we’re gonna do awesome at nationals. did mr. livsay tell you we’re dedicating this year to you? we love you and hope that you can come back soon! youre in my prayers!

Psalm 27:1 The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom (or what-DG note) shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom (or what-DG note) shall I be afraid?

Ps 91:16 With long life will I (God) satisfy him (Dan), and shew him my salvation.

Dan - the Rittenhouse family has for many years been the recipient of your love and affection. For years you have stopped by our house to gather up my children and take them away for the day. You are a hero in my home. My boys think you are Jesus with skin on. The foosball table you gave us never gets dusty as we play it all the time! In addition, I know the Mexico trips, the coaching, the Habitat House volunteering — all you’ve done for so many years. Your life is one of the greatest reasons why people would follow Jesus in our city. I love you with strong emotions. Your life offers PROOF that God is real - and our city is desperate for proof. Thank you for living a connected life — to God and to your community. I love you man and when I grow up, I want to be just like you. Andy Rittenhouse

Dan,

I want to let you know that we have been praying for you and will continue. I have always been so encouraged by your genuine heart and passion for God even through this time as noted in the journal. Thanks for the example you have been. Keep fighting and pressing on to know the Lord. I want to encourage you with my favorite Psalms of late: Psalm 43 and Psalm 71:7-18.
“Hope in God; for I shall again praise Him, my salvation and my God.”

Your friends,
Randy and Julie

Just a note to say thank you for being such a great son. You never caused us any problems (except when you sneaked behind the TV and messed up the picture when you were about 18 months old.) I thank God for you every day, Dan! I will continue to double my prayers for you. God bless
Very much love,
mom

ps don’t try to email me back!

We are happy to hear your latest news from Johns Hopkins. God is amazing, and so are you.

Dan and Jan,

Just wanted to let you all know that you have been in our prayers. Our God is an amazing God and can use just about anything to teach us the lessons He wants us to learn. How awesome to have a heavenly Father that cares that much for us. Blessings on you both and your family.

David & Sandy

Dan,
I can only double or triple what others have said. I thank you for being an inspiration to my own two sons, Mike and Paul, and to Michelle, who remembers some great fun times in youth group with a man who displayed God’s love and grace to all. You have been like a father and a mentor to Mike, and an encourager and prayer warrior for Paul. They all love and respect you, and have witnessed Jesus in your life. Scott has been doing some work on our (Krista, her husband, Darren, and myself) home we just bought together. He let me know what was going on in your life. I have been praying and will continue to pray for you. You have been a blessing and example for all of us. The latest results are wonderful. May God continue to bless you with His great healing and peace!
Jerri

Psalms 118:24 This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.

God is Jehovah Jireh, the One who sees ahead and provides.

Whatever the problem; God will “see to it!”

Dan the Pin Cushion Man! (I saw someone else on this blog refer to you as that since you have been poked so many times!). All your friends in Tijuana Mexico say “Hola!” and wanted you to know they are praying for you. And you know that not even the Lutherans (another reference to the blog!) can pray like the Mexicans at pastor Albert’s church! All the homes you have worked on in Tijuana the past few years are still very intact and inhabited by Christ-followers that are still being blessed by your gifts! May God continue to bless you my brother!

Hey Dan!
It’s Lesa. Just wanted to thank you and Jan for the pics of the house and to let you know Scott, Iz and I are praying for you two daily. We love you guys and are so encouraged by your walk and witness.

We are thinking of you and praying for you!

Peyton and Dougal

Dan & Jan,
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you & praying for you and your family during these difficult times.
Rusty & Bev

Hey Dan! It’s an honor and a blessing to be praying without ceasing on your behalf. Not the diagnosis I’ve been praying for but God is strong and mighty and able to strengthen you and Jan and family through this. Much love and prayers.

I already put this scripture on here before, but I am impressed today to list it again.

Psalm 27:1 The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom (or what-DG note) shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom (or what-DG note) shall I be afraid?

James says; The prayer of a righteous man avails much! You have many praying for you. Stay in the Word.

Hi Dan-
I am sorry I haven’t done this sooner. I don’t know if you know who I am but I am Jacob’s girlfriend and I have heard many great things about you. I just wanted to let you know that I am very big in my faith and I have been praying for you since the day Jacob told me the bad news. It sounds like you are doing well, the lord definently has his hand on your shoulder. You are a good man and have a lot of people praying for you, including Jared and I’s FCA huddle. I wish you the best of luck, and let the lord be with you.

love-
Jessie

Hi Dan,

We have met a few times at Fellowship. I am a friend if Elizabeths. I have to tell you that I know you are a respected pillar of your family and they have showed us true Love for the Lord and tremendous respect for you in this time.
We are praying for a Miracle and that GOd will be Glorified!!!

Hey Dan,

We just heard about the new battle the Lord has you waging, and we want you to know we’re in the fight right along with you as you “manifest the manifold wisdom of God before the rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms.” You already have a long history of doing this, to the enemy’s dismay and to God’s greater glory! We praise Him for the equipping He has given you through a long life of generous service. His Grace is abounding in you, dear Brother!

All our love to you, Jan and the family,
Bill and Kitty Job
P.S. Kitty’s in town and would love to contact Jan!

Dan,

You are an inspiration to me and others around you. It may sound a little weird coming from me but You are. You’ve always been a positive, unselfish, kind-hearted person. We don’t know how blessed we are until we have occurrences that causes us to reflect upon them. You are a blessing to all whom you come in contact with. Heavenly Father has blessed you and will continue to bless you for all the good deeds you do. I would ask that as you go and share with others of the wonderful works of Jesus Christ and our Heavenly Father, that you would pray earnestly for those things that you should speak of. Dan you are a Good man. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,
Stan

Dan, I will continue to pray for you. May His peace beyond all understanding be with you today.

blessings,

beth

Hey Mr. Kuban, I’m really sorry to hear about this, but I know you’ve got the strength to fight through this (mentally, physically, and spiritually). You also have an incredible family to help you through it. Good luck with the treatments, and I’ll definitely be praying for you.

Dan,

It’s been a few years since we’ve seen each other, and I’m really grieved to hear that you’ve been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

When I think of you, I remember the godly example you were to me as a teen. You were impressive then, especially with you humor, but now that I’m an adult you are more impressive.

Dan, I read this which gave me much peace:
“..we who have fled to take hold of the hope offered to us may be greatly encouraged. We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.” Hebrews 6:18-19

It’s the day before Thanksgiving, and I’m so thankful our families paths crossed. What sweet, sweet memories I have.

Hi Dan !
It’s 14 degrees with snow and ice. Scraping the windshields and wearing winter coats already. L, boys and myself say hello and continue to pray. Somehow, the air always seems cleaner and fresher outdoor during these colder days. You are in our thoughts and also give our love to Jan & the entire family.

T, L and Boys

Dear Dan and Jan:
My wife Toni and I are praying for you. Your strong relationship with God is being strenthened through the power of prayer by your family and friends.
You and your family are in our Holiday thoughts and prayers. Continue the fight! You are not alone!
Your friend from High School;
Brian

Hi Dan, Just checking in to let you know that I am thinking about you. I’ve been reading your blog and talking to lee. Hope your spirits continue to remain high. If they get down call me. I’ll cheer you up with some bad jokes. Send you my best, Paul

Dan,
It was so good to see you and Jan at the communion table on Sunday. You both really look great! We are so pleased that your chemo treatments are behind you and that you only have a few more radiation treatments left. Know that God still brings you to mind often and we are continuing to lift you up to our great God!

In Him,
Susan

Hi Dan,
We’ve only met a few times, but I feel I know you more than that as my daughter Caroline joined you ( via Nina Martin) on the raft trip through the Grand Canyon several years ago and we remain close with the Martin’s through our church group. Your story rich in faith, friendship and love is a beautiful reflection of Christ and a blessing to so many. Please know that our family is praying for you and hoping for the very best. Blessings, Mary

Dan, on my request Claire sent me your email address. I’ve been able to sort of keep up with your progress as Millie still meets every Friday morning at church.

I hope this find you nearing the end of your chemo and radiation treatments and they will be completely successful.

Watching my wife, Suzanne, suffer through cancer last year and part of this year I appreciate the difficulty with chemo and something about the good and bad it does.

However, I also think of my brother John and his battle 25 years ago with cancer. He had surgery and chemo and has been cancer free ever since.

I have been and will continue to pray for your recovery and for your family.

Bob Severin

Merry Christmas! Thanks for your example of joy and hope in Christ. Doing the Crown Bible study together this year was one of my highlights of 2008 and I am thankful for the new friendship with you as a result of that time together!.Isaiah 33:5,6 The Lord is exalted for He dwells on high …and He is the stability of your times, a wealth of salvation, wisdom and knowledge; the fear of the Lord is his treasure.

Dear Dan,
I’ve been keeping up with the blog, along with talking with Elizabeth Anne. I just wanted you to know that our whole school body here at Perimeter Christian School is praying for you. God has prompted me with prayers for you, lifting you up to our Father. May He continue to give you grace and peace and healing through this journey.
Love, Mary

Dan,
I was thinking about you and praying for you today and thought I would check your site for an update. God bless you and your family, we will keep you lifted and look forward to the victory we are promised. God Bless.
Curt Arnett
Amor Ministires Board

Dear Dan and Jan,
We are continuing to lift you and your family up to the Lord in prayer. Thank you for your testimony of unwaivering faith that encourages and blesses us! Look forward to seeing how God works in and through your life and experience with cancer.

Your Brother and Sister in Christ,
Robbie and Dabney Mason

Dan - we love you and we are praying for you, Jan and the boys.

Dear Dan and Jan we love you guys and have you and the whole family in our prayers.
John and Sue

Dan and Jan
I will be praying for your family this next week, escpecially on Friday. As a wife, I can only imagine the range of emotions Jan is going through and will ask our God to comfort and strengthen her. I will pray for the Lord to be honored and glorified and ask for healing for you. Know that you are loved by so many!
Beth

Dan and Jan,
Our hearts and prayers are with you all!
love,
Janet

Dan and Jan:
It was so great seeing y’all over the Holiday break. You and your family are in our prayers daily. We pray for God to bring healing to you and strength to the family. We love you.

ML

We have been praying for you and will continue to do so during your surgery next week. “Not to us, O Lord, not ot us, But to thy name give Glory”.

Sorry I meant surgeons and staff at Duke! Thankfully, Jesus know’s where you’re going!!

Dan and Jan,
I have been out of town, and just got back to your latest entries. Eddie and I will continue to pray that this operation will alleviate all the cancer and will be one more way that God is glorified through you all in this story.

Love you all,
Eddie and Kathy

James 5:16 The earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its working].

We’re all praying for ya Dan!

I’m so glad Jesus made me righteous, not of my own, but by His Blood! Glory to God!

Hey Dan,
You and your family are such an important part of Amor and we are praying for you daily!
~Erin Lyde

On my knees, surrendered heart, I ask the Father to do what only He can do. I ask for healing for you. I ask for strength for you. I ask for peace for you. I ask for joy for you. I ask for new beginnings and new frontiers for you and Jan. I do not understand, yet I trust Him. I do not know His response, yet I know He is good.
Praying and thinking of you each day and especially on Friday. Isaiah 41:10

Dan,
We want you to know that we will be praying for
you and thinking about you on Friday. God be with you and may he guide the hand of the surgeon.
Much love, Aunt Jeanne and Uncle Dave

Dan,

We are praying fervently for your surgery this Friday.

In Christ,

Chris & Zarah Yerger

We are praying for you all.

God Bless,
STC

Dan & Jan…………..

Feeling so bad just hearing. Duffy told me Wed. night. Me and him took your Dad to dinner last night, then back to the house to just shoot the breeze for a while. Seemed to keep his mind off things for the evening.Talked to Duffy again today and got the good news! So glad to hear it. I can feel all the well wishes and prayers are working!
Get better quick. Warm weather is soon to come and I’m expecting you both at the L T H S reunion this Summer. Just don’t hold it againmst me if I again pick on Chicagoland friends than now have a Southern Drawl!!!!

Marty

Hi Dan,
You have been on our minds for several days. The
prayer today before reading the most recent email
was for the tumor to shrink and pull away from the artery. Also for the tumor to disappear. We will continue to lift you up and know that you are in the Lord’s hands. He loves you beyond all of our imaginations. Blessings to you and your family.
May you feel the LOVE that we all have for you as the family at Fellowship and believers in the grace of Jesus.

Dan,

My thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day. You’ve been a dear friend since Scott and I were knee high to a grasshopper…I’m here if you need me!

Jay

Just wanted to say hi, and to re-affirm to you that I and my Bible Study buddies pray often for you. Lee is teaching a class in our department this semester and I haven’t received any student complaints thus far, so I guess he doing well. :-). May God continue to give you peace and strength.

Dan, I had heard about your illness (Bill Hamel is in my men’s group), but I didn’t know about your website. Hang tough, and Godspeed. My prayers are with you,
Jeff

Dan,

Come what may, you’re in good hands. May God’s peace guard your heart and mind. Isaiah 40 comes to mind while thinking about you today.

Dan,
So sorry to hear that you have developed an infection. We are going to ask God to clear that up soon and to give you new strength day by day. I know the Enemy would want to cause you to become discouraged by this “setback”, but God is able to show you His abundant grace and love yet again with HIS healing power. Keep looking to the One who loves you most and has you in His protective hands for His encouragement during this time when your body is in a weakened state.

Continuing to intercede for you,
Susan and Yamil

All:

Sorry to hear about the infection. We have a mechanic who was in for colon cancer surgery and developed an abscess after surgery. We pray for both of you daily and ask the Lord to cure your infections and bring you strength.

God bless,
Ric

Dan, Just read the update. Prayer warriors everywhere are in full battle gear. We pray for strength, encouragemnt, healing, and restored joy for you and Jan. We ache with you on the setback but do not despair in our prayers.

Love, Rick and Teresa

Dan-
We continue to pray, to lift you up asking God to strengthen you to help you fight this infection.
Love,
Mike

Dan - our family is praying for you. Paige and I are praying right now. We love you brother. The boys really miss Mr. Dan!

Dan and Jan,
I visit this site about on a weekly basis and see you are taking a hard tumble in an already hard journey. It is my hope that my prayers and those of the many others here will be a help to sustain your through this dark hour. Jan, I think of your own rough road also. I do not forget that you are traveling on this journey also.
I read in the journal entries that you are considering an alternative modality of treatment. I have been interested in those for quite some time. I can tell you that I am a witness to a small number of friends and acquaintances who HAD cancer and chose alternatives as a complimentary treatment.
I hope you find the way that fits you perfectly.
Your old (double entendre) buddy, Mike.

You and Jan are in my prayers. I talked with Paula Watkins and she updated me on your website as we talked and they are also praying for you. I also talked with Judy Caudill at Children’s Hospital and she said to give them a call sometime. I have volunteered there over 10 yrs and currently work part time in the gift shop so I was surprised to hear that you also volunteered there. Jan and I had a nice conversation on Sun. God bless you and your wonderful family.

Dan,

Brother, I have been thinking and praying for you a lot lately. We sure do miss you at the board meetings. Just know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you Dan!

Mike

I declare Proverbs 4:7 over you. God is giving you wisdom and the understanding on what to do with that wisdom.

Also, Ps 5:12 that the favor of God is all around you.

Proverbs 4:7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom; Yea, with all thy getting get understanding.

Dan:
I just learned today about your battle with cancer. Please know that I will pray for you and your family. Although it has been Many Years since we were “fellow-members” at Covenant Presbyterian, My daughter Alexis and I will be forever grateful for the kindness, compassion, and concern you and your precious wife Jan showed toward us, especially for Alexis. As you may know, Alexis’s’ mother passed away on October 31, 2005.
Whenever Alexis and I reminiscence about the past, she always holds you and Jan in the highest esteem. I know I can’t do much, but if there is ANYTHING I can do to help, please don’t hesitate to contact me.
Sincerely,
Steve and Alexis Thurmer 865 435-3886. 865 250-2687.

Happy Birthday Dan! We hope this day will be full of new joy and hope from the Lord.
Thinking about you and praying.
-Patty and Patrick Hull

Oops! Day late. Happy Birthday. Just think. I’ve known you from just out of diapers to just eligible for AARP. Long time, ‘ol pal.
Hope you day was a fine one.

P.S. Happy Birthday!!!

Just letting you know we think and pray for you two often. Love you guys!

Leigh & Joel Longee

P.S. Happy Belated Birthday!

Dan,

Laura and I continue to pray for you and your family. We are also giving you to the Lord in our small group each week. It is such a testimony to see you at church through this whole process. You are a champ and God’s gift to many.

“Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

My thoughts are with you and your family always. I love you all! Judie

Hi, Dan.
Just wanted to let you and Jan know that we have been praying for you and will continue to do so. We know God is faithful and works all things for good. We enjoy hearing how you are redeeming the time and finding joy.
It is our prayer that you will sense God’s presence and His peace more and more, and be able to rest in Him; and that at the same time, you will experience the abundant life that He will continue to give to you both forever.
Much love,
Tom and Juanita

Dan,
Just thinking about you and your family. Been praying for you all. God bless each of you.
Curt

April 2, 2009

Dan,
Just a note to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. You are in a tough fight, but if anyone I know is capable of winning, it’s you. I’ve never known you to back down from anything and this is not the time to start doing so. All my love to you, Jan, the boys and grandkids. Keep the faith!
Huston

Hello Dan! Grace, Emily, Andrew and I have been praying for you whenever you come to mind. One of our frequent prayers is for the Shalom of God for you and your family. And, of course, we always ask for complete healing, however God wants to do it, whether through medicine or supernaturally (or a combination!). You are greatly missed in the Missions’ area at FEFC! Your life and service impacted many for Christ. I’m asking the Lord for health and strength so that you can continue to serve Him!

Joan

Dan,
Just wanted to let you know that we have started praying for the procedure to be successful tomorrow and for God’s peace for you and your family going into it. You have been in our thoughts and prayers often and recently our son, Jonathan, mentioned your help in driving the Fellowship bus last summer to the Jenkins farm for a middleschool function. You really are an inspiration to many in the way you live your life for Jesus, and I am sure you have touched thousands for the Kingdom of God. May you and Jan continue to walk in HIS strength and abundant grace that He freely gives you. When our children were younger, we used to sing this Scripture to them and this is my prayer for you tomorrow: The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make His face shine upon you and give you peace. The Lord be gracious to you.

In Christ’s love,
Susan, Yamil, Jonathan, Andrew, and Katie

Hi Dan,
I went to grade school with you (Patti Johnson) and I ran it to Rusty and Bev tonight and he told me of your website. i am thinking of you and praying for you…my husband of 29 years passed away 2 years ago. I have a son and daughter-in-law and I have a daughter in Austin, TX. My prayers are with you!

Dan, I’ve never given up on God’s plan — and I’ve never given up on you. You, Jan, and the entire family are in my thoughts and prayers ALWAYS. God Bles, Paul

Dan,

Many years ago when I was in a hospital bed in Chicago, the Lord spoke to me about the importance of “being” versus “doing”. I was reminded of that lesson after reading your recent update. It is so easy to get caught up in doing things. We all need to be still and know HE is God and to remember what truly is important. I appreciate what you shared. Thank you.

Praying for you and Jan and your family,
Susan

Thank you for your inspirational post on April 20, Dan. Our family’s thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and Jan and the entire family as always. May God’s blessings and peace continue to be with all of you!

Dear Dan,
You and Jan and your family are in our thoughts and prayers every day. Your post was an inspiration to us. I just finished reading for the second time “What Did Jesus Say About That?” which you gave to us 25 years ago. Thought about you through the entire book. You have been and still are a blessing to Gary and I.
Melinda

Dan,
You and Jan and the family are in my thoughts and prayers regularly.

Colleen

Hey Dan,
Gayla shared with the Amor team the scripture from Hebrews that you pointed she and Scott to, and I wanted to thank you for the wonderful blessing that it brought us. I am praying for you and your family!

Hey Dan,
You are on my heart today and in my prayers. I just read your journal from April … you are like Paul - learning to truly be content in whatever circumstance! Thank you for your testimony of faith! Thank you for praying for us, your friends too. May the Lord bless you today!

Janet England

Dan,

I don’t know why our paths didn’t cross more over the years at Fellowship. Somehow we just ran in different circles. But you and Jan have always been part of “the family”. Jennifer and I love you both. We continue to pray for you. Dan, you are a man of amazing strength. Thank you for setting the bar high. You are iron sharpening iron. We are all better Christ followers for your example. Peace, joy and rest to you and Jan.

The Smees

Dan and Jan,

Vicky and I are still following this site closely.

It’s really cool you got to see the shuttle launch.

Dan, your comments about not washing your car lately reminded me again about your Javelin. I can still hear The Guess Who playing from your 8-track! You washed that car more times in h.s. than the total times I’ve ever washed any of my cars. It would be great if someone could dig up a picture or two of your ol’ AMC classic, scan ‘em, and put ‘em up with your photos on this site. Awesome car with an awesome owner.

Jim

Still in thoughts here in Lockport. Not just by family. Wait? I feel I am Family! Better let all “Us Family” know when you come home! Might be able to come up with a cookout for ya’s. Ya think Dad & the Bro’s can come up with a fish or two to fry up? Lots of prayers and love been headin’ your way. Seems to be workin’ too! Best to you and Jan, & the kids. Hope to see you sometime soon.

hi mr.dan we hope you get well soon!

Love, hugs and prayers from Florida!

Dear Dan,

I just wanted to drop a note and let you know how much I enjoyed our time this morning. I’ve always enjoyed getting together with you and Jan. Each time I leave compelled to want to know Jesus more and point others to Him.

I so enjoyed hearing you and Jan’s perspective on life, relationships, and suffering. I won’t soon forget the advice you gave me in regards to choosing a spouse that 1) has surrendered their live to Christ as Savior AND Lord, and 2) to not just marry someone that I can live with, but to marry someone I can’t live without. I can promise you that students at the University of North Carolina will be hearing those words repeated from my mouth in the years to come.

I’m also grateful for the eternal perspective on suffering, and admire how you have gone through this time with such an immovable faith. Wow, faith really is a gift from God!

God has used you to make an eternal impact in so many lives, many more than you can count. I’ve learned so much from hearing about the ways you have used your time, talents, and treasures to serve our loving Savior and point others to Him.

I was a complete stranger when I called and entered your home for the first time in September of 2004 asking if you would be a part of my ministry team, and I have been so blessed by how you have been so kind and generous to me the last five years. Thank you so much for your care and friendship…for it I am eternally grateful.

I will be thinking of you and Jan in the days to come. Thank you so much once again for everything.

Jon Cate

Congratulations Dan and Jan on becoming grandparents for the fourth time. How lucky that little girl is to be joining such a beautiful family. May God bless her, Robert and Jordan and all of you and may He keep your family in His loving care always.
Your Mom keeps me up to date about you and we continue to pray for you daily.
Much love,
Aunt Jeanne and Uncle David

“Before the mountains were born or you brought forth the earth and the world, from everlasting to everlasting you are God!” Ps. 90:2

God is love which flows into your family. That is reality.

I think I go to your blog for comfort and encouragement. Isn’t that interesting! Congratulations on your new mini-Kubans. Grandchildren are such a gift from the Lord. I love you all very much.

judie

Congratulations Dan and Jan on your newest grandchild. What a great blessing. You are both in our prayers here at Focus.

Dear Dan,

Your comments on being in the word and keeping the word in your heart struck home to me. Last year I was faithful to be in the word daily, journal daily what spoke to me and be faithful to keep up with reading. This year I started out great but lost my commitment by March. God has been reminding me in sermons, emails, and readings that I still do that he misses my time with him. Your July posting was the one that has brought me back to my time in the word.

Paula and I keep you in our evening prayers and God puts you on our minds at many other times during the week. Your postings speak volumes of the Christian man that lives within Dan Kuban. I have always admired the strength of your faith, the love you show for family and others, and the quiet, positive manner that displays your faith.
There is a saying that believers are a church to nonbelievers. They are looking at us to see what type of church we are- Do we keep our word ? Are we examples of grace and mercy ? Do we take shortcuts in our ethics and morals ? Is there enough evidence of our walk that a jury will convict us of being a believer ? Your life is the church that they should see.

In Christ,

Jere Watkins

Dear Dan,

I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family. May Jesus continue to give you a strong sense of his presence and love.

Shalom,

Bill

Dan,
Your story continues to be an inspiration. You and your family remain in my prayers.
Peace,
Jeff

Dear Uncle Dan,
I just wanted let you know that my family and I are still praying for you and we love you very much. Stay strong in the faith.

Dan,

News doesn’t always travel fast. Just heard today of your “condition”. I don’t have anything to say that hasn’t been said a 100 times before in this column. I remember you well and always energetic and cheerful with an inside joyous glow. After 32 years at the “ridge” I’m still pluggin along and have yet to meet anyone like you. May God shine his face upon you every day and bless you and keep you.
Sincerely,
Blake

Dan, Greetings from Karen, Kenya. We recently moved out of Nairobi to a home just 2 Km from West Nairobi School where Juanita continues to teach 6th grade. I continue to serve as a Bible translation consultant for a variety of Bible translation teams in Tanzania and Kenya.

I was wondering what I could say to encourage the encourager, i.e., the first person that comes to my mind in everyone that I have met who exemplifies the Rom 12:8 gift of encouragement. BTW, that’s you. The answer came from my own heart/soul. What motivates me the most, i.e., gives me the greatest kick, is knowing that God has used me to bless someone else spiritually. So I want to encourage you that you have blessed me on many occasions, as long ago as the spiritual gifts class at Covenant, to your sermon about death that I recently downloaded from C3 … and these are lasting blessings. May God continue to bless you and may He draw you and your family close together and close to Him.
Your brother in Christ,
Tom

Dan,
I read your blog for encouragement and strength. How amazing is that! Nothing that the Lord blesses you with is a surprise. You are a man with a heart full of Him!!

Thank you for the sweet love story you just wrote about. How blessed Heather, Jennifer and I have been to have spent time with the loves of your life.

Hey Uncle Dan, what’s up? Just finished puttin a new radiator on the green truck, as well as a new fuel filter. My mechanic and I think it will run forever. Pushing 173,000 miles on the odometer. It’s travels now include the regions of northern California, Oregon and Washington. Was hoping to get a trifecta going and cross into Canada, but not enough time. She’s already seen Mexico and lots of new U.S. areas.

Hope you’re good, thanks for visiting my folks up north and my mom is ravin about the saw, she loves it. And from what I hear the foreman (Dad) approves.

Me- In training right now for the upcoming feature entitled, Sol, where I play a space soldier in training from the future. Pretty amazing, life’s fun like that. Fly out to North Carolina to shoot in October until November. Went parasailing with an amazing girlfriend I’ve been dating for 9 months now. Her name is Vanessa.

Tell everyone I say hello, I’ll be praying for you! Love you.

Aaron

Hey, Dan, Just wanted to say that it was really great to see you last week. I thank God we had the time together. Although I cannot be geographically closer, you will always be close in my heart and mind.
I did pretty well on the targets considering I had not picked up a gun in over 8 years.
…And I developed a few more gray hairs –Danielle’s started driving! She’s inheriting the ‘96 white 4-runner–over 240,000 miles and going strong!
We continue to pray for you and your family. We love you and Jan so much.

Dear Dan,

Just had you on my mind this morning. I am confident God is cradling you in His tender hands. Nothing better than being in His grip of grace! Gaze into His eyes and experience Father’s love, comfort, and peace each day on your journey. And remember–you and your family are much loved!

In Christ alone,
Roberta

Wish I could embrace your strength and courage. I so long for an understanding of your faith in the Lord. You amaze me!

Hey Uncle Dan, just wanted to say hi and let you know that you are in my thoughts. Schools going good, all these math classes are keeping me really busy. I am in my last engineering math class this semester, diff e.q., and all math proofing classes after that. Less than 2 years and I am done! Well, I hope things are going well, I’m praying for you, love you.

Stephanie

Dan,

You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. My Barbara is always concerned about your journey these days. We love you and Jan. Just want to remind you are so much appreciated. -Tim

Dan: You come to my mind often these days. I pray for comfort in an all surpassing way from our Lord for you and Jan. Seems like just yesterday that we were in a community group with Larry and Jo Lee. That community group was just a glimpse of what I think heaven is like! My Reed got married!!! He thinks of you also, Admires you so much and is blessed to have worked with you in OBY. Love you,

Beth Nelson

Hey Dan, The Lord has brought you and Jan to mind many times these past few days. How we wish we could scoop you up and transport you to China for a little exotic visit! But we thank the Lord that, through His Spirit, these cavernous distances of time and space are but a quick thought or a whispered prayer away. Please know that there are many such thoughts and prayers being transported heavenward on your behalf. We love you and your amazing family…
Always,
Bill and Kitty

Dan,
So glad to hear about your wonderful “church at home”. We have done this on a few, rare occasions, but your note has reminded me what a blessing it can be. Please know that we continue to lift you, Jan, your boys and their families to the Father in prayer. We don’t always know exactly how to pray, but we know the One we pray to knows exactly what you need.

Grace and peace to you,
Susan

Dear Dan,
I spoke with your Mom last night and got a blow by blow description of her weekend with you, Jan, the boys and grand children. What a blessing, to have so many of your loved ones together in your home. You are such a special person and well loved by God and so many people. We continue to pray for you, Jan and your family. May His love give you the strength and courage in your journey.
Love you much.
Aunt Jeanne

Dear Dan and Jan:

I was just thinking about you guys and wanted you to know I am praying for you.

Dan,

Glad you were able to enjoy church-at-home recently. Today, my 18 year old son enjoyed church with “Nanny,” his grandmother that lives in Clemson. We went to church with her Sunday morning after a sound defeat of Clemson over Virginia on Saturday night. Nanny was so very proud to have her oldest grandson at her side, as other church members recalled how small he was when he attended vacation bible school during summers not-so-long-ago. What special memories we have with those we love at church and at home. Take Care.

Dan and Jan,
You’ve been on my heart continuously over the past several weeks. Like Susan’s message from 11-28, I found myself walking on the beach Thanksgiving Day praising God for the witness and mentor you are spiritually. Thanking him for fond memories of Juarez and Hurricane Katrina trips and bad coffee and long & wonderful days of sweat and dirt! I continue to pray for the Lord’s real and physical embrace upon you each day. I love you guys!!
In Him,
Bob

Dan,

Your message on “the last enemy” was very good. While I’m still one of those cradle Catholics who don’t study chapter and verse until they are memorized, your thoughts were very clear on the bible teachings. Very well done !

As I travelled to Huntington to visit my girls and one of the grandsons, I prayed a rosary for you and a family who just lost their daughter, Beckie. She was in our youth group at church years ago with my oldest, Don. I prayed for him also.

In a very chance meeting, I saw Beckie in the summer of 2008 at Ocean Isle Beach, NC. It was a chance meeting since our family had never been to that beach before, and I had not seen Beckie for a few years. She was her usual bubbly self, talking quickly, almost with a tone that showed some self consciousness. Beckie had kidney problems all her life. Margo told me about a month ago that she was in a hospice care home. But still, I didn’t believe she was dying.

Beckie is still alive to me. I’ll always have that visual of her walking down that beach.

God bless you and your family this Christmas season,

Ric

Thank you Scott for sharing - I can imagine your family times together - enjoying one another. I pray this Christmas will be a special time too. Dan and Jan, enjoy those grand babies!
Blessings to all of you,
Janet

Dear Dan, Jan, & family,

Have a Merry Christmas.

This life is only a reflection of the wonderful God who sent his Son to us. I am praying for you this morning and hoping you all find His peace this season through the eternal love that is the Christ.

God bless you all .

Thinking of you and your family over the past couple of weeks. I trust this holiday season will hold fond memories for all the Kubans. Thank you, Dan, for resolving to use each day to God’s glory!

Called to influence,
Roberta

Hi, Sweet Ones! Over the past months, I’ve written…and deleated…..written….and deleated…….now, it’s time to just say….I sure do love you guys.
Thank you for living out your faith so beautifully as you’ve gone through all kinds of trials. It has proved itself to be genuine and has resulted in praise, glory and honor for our Lord Jesus! Everytime your names are mentioned….our Lord’s name’s mentioned too!
Thank you for loving Him. It encourages my faith to another level.
God bless you, Di

Dan,
Just dropping a note to say you are in my thoughts and prayers often.

Hey Dan, Im driving a car that has a 5 speed stick and I think of you all the time, remember you taught me how to drive a car with a stick..
We were about 16yrs old. You were Awesome then!!
I see from all the friends that you have. That your still awesome, Love you Dan and miss you, your friend forever, remember what you named me in my high school year book “poodle head”it still makes me laugh

Dan, Just wanted you to know that I met with Scott and Dre this afternoon and they told me about your circumstances. I knew when we had the closing on Westview that something was wrong but I didn’t feel I should ask. I want you to know that my husband and I will be praying for you and Jan. What an awesome God we serve - and He is the Great Physician. May God bless you both and have mercy on you both during these times. After reading all the entries in your journal and website, I see how loved you both are. And what a blessing to have 4 Loving sons and their families to care for you. Just know that the Comforter is with you and many, many prayers are going up for you. Love to you both, Sheila Cross

Dan, Bless you brother. We think about you often.

Patrick and Patty

Dan & Jan,

You’ve been on my heart lately and I just wanted to let you know that you remain firmly in my prayers. May each day bring renewed strength and power to you both.

Dave

Happy Birthday Uncle Dan! Miss you and love you!
-Stephanie

Happy birthday! Hope that you have all the cake that I could eat, and that you and your family have a great day. We think the world of you, and I hope one day I can be the kind of dad you are.

Hey Dan and Jan,

Don’t know if it’s jet lag, but I’ve been getting up at 3:30/4:30 am (China Time) and you all have been on my mind. I know what that means, when it happens, and it was such a joy to remember you in prayer. His steadfast love and His mercies never fail. They are new every morning! Great is His faithfulness!! Lam. 3: 22-23

Love always,
Kitty

Dan,
I just found out about this site and wanted you, Jan, and the family to know that Steve and I think of you often and are praying for you daily.

May God continue to bless and guide you and your family.

Even though we as humans don’t know/understand God’s ultimate plan-there is one and faith will bring us through.

Even though it has been several years since we’ve seen one another, your pictures immediately did a time warp and seems like yesterday-I love you and Jan and miss you!

It was great to spend some time with Jan. To hear of talk of you and the boys and of course now the girls is always such a joy. We pray endleslly for all of you. God blass. You all have touched my life like you will never know.

Hi Dan,
I’ve thought of you many times the past few sunny days - knowing how you love the outdoors! You, Jan and the rest of the family are in my prayers.

love,
Janet

Wanted you and Jan to know that you’ve been on our hearts, and we’ve been lifting up prayers for your from this side of the Atlantic. We love you guys.

Jim and Barbara

Just wanted you and your family to know that I’m reminded to pray for you this morning. May you trust in His unfailing love; may your heart rejoice in your salvation. May you sing to the Lord, for He has been good to you. Ps. 13:5-6.

Called to influence,
Roberta

And the big news is that Don will be entering Medical School at Marshall in the fall. We are all so happy for him and wish him the best in his new endeavor. He actually graduated in December, but will be celebrating the graduation on May 16th.

Mr. Kuban, just got through talking with Kevin on facebook. He told me about the site. I wanted to let you know that I have always had positive views of you and your family. I remember days riding my bike down the street to play basketball and have water ballon fights. We always felt like it was a loving environment and a place of acceptance. The following passage from 1st Peter has always given me an image of you as an elder/leader in kingdom.

To the elders among you… Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, serving as overseers—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.
… clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because,
“God opposes the proud
but gives grace to the humble.” Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith… And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen. (1st Peter 5)

I think highly of you and thank God for the ways he has and will use you for the kingdom.

Jonathan “Larry” Grissom

P.S. I became a christian in college. I am using my degree in chemistry combined with my masters in education to teach high school students and coach track. I get to know them in the classroom and on the track. Through my volunteering as a Young Life leader I get to share my faith. Just trying to spread the light.

As I think of you and your family, I am drawn to John 15: “You didn’t choose me, remember, I chose you, and put you in the world to bear fruit.” Dan, you and Jan and you precious family are a gigantic bowl of fresh, ripe fruit! Please know that you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Because of Him,
Judie

Dan,
We’ve been passing around the Habitat video here in the Amor office in San Diego. It strikes me how you say this build was supposed to be a memorial, but here you are radiating life! You’re continually in our prayers.
Andy Lyde
Amor Ministries

Loved the story about Kuban engineering and the sofa. Your family inspires me. I was moved to tears while watching the Habitat video. God is not finished with you yet, Dan. You and Jan and your family continue to be in my prayers.
Grace and peace to you,
Susan Gonzalez

Uncle Dan and family, I just saw the Habitat video and thought it was so amazing! You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Dear Dan:

What a blessing you have been in so many lives. Godspeed to you on your new journey watching over all of us from a new mansion in the sky. Your faith and your example will live on in our hearts for all of our days. Well done, good and faithful servant.

Love you Dan the Man,
Lee

Jan and family:

He has fought the good fight. He has run the race. Now God will say “Welcome good and faithful servant”.

Our sincere condolences to those of you missing someone very special.

Peace be with you,
Ric Bertolotti & family

I love what DL Moody said about himself that is also true about Dan… “He is more alive now than he has ever been.” Oh the joy of sending a saint home…you can almost hear the cheers of heaven. But oh how he will be missed. His wisdom from living so closely with the Lord…his encouragement to keep on following hard after the Lord…his smile and laughter…all that he is in body and spirit. May your memories be sweet with no regrets.

Dear Jan and family,
You all and Dan are very special people. We know that God will be with you in definite ways in the coming weeks and months. We will pray that you will recognize His presence, and His comfort. Thanks for your testimonies.
Love always,
Tom and Juanita Matthews
Nairobi, Kenya

Precious Jan, Scott, Jeff, Rob and Kevin I loved Dan and his gift of teaching. We were taught by him when our boys were much younger in a bible study that he led, it met in each others homes.He was always upbeat, and happy. I will always remember him with a sweet memory. Much love to you all from Sherri,Jim,Mark and Matthew Holder.

Dear Jan & Family…We are so sorry to hear about Dan.We will always remember what a special
person he was especially from our association with him through baseball at the boys club. He was a wonderful example to the boys not only through his knowledge & teaching of the game, but by showing respect for them, fairness & encouragement. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Love, Sam, Mary & Kevin McKeethan

“PRECIOUS in the sight of the Lord is the death of His godly ones.” Psalm 115: 16

What a warm welcome Dan is receiving right now!

Love, hugs and prayers to Jan, the kids and the grand-kids.

Bill and Kitty Job
Xiamen, China

Dear Jan & family,

I am a friend of Elizabeth’s and I had the opportunity to meet your family on several occasions. I am so sorry for your loss and I am so excited to hear how God is going to use Dan’s life here as an example to us all!
I am praying continually for your family to feel God’s breath on your face and his tears falling on your cheeks as He weeps with you at your loss, as He drwas you even closer to Himself during this time.

Dawn E. Sorsey

We first met Daniel when he coached our son Kevin in baseball. You just knew instantly that he was a class person. He was the kind of person that made you feel good just being around him. I am hard pressed to think of a more cordial and caring person. Whenever we would run into him it was as if he knew us all of our lives. We will really miss him and he is in our prayers. I have a tear in my eye just having to type this. The world has lost a wonderful soul but heaven has gained another angel. Dan and his family are in our prayers. Gerald Calia

GERALD CALIA

Jul 25, 2010
OAK RIDGE, TN

Just wanted to say that though the years have passed since I babysat for the boys I have thought often of the things I learned from the real life examples of Dan and Jan of living through Christ. I am praying for you and the family.

Jan and family, thank you for sharing Dan with Covenant and Fellowship. I am a beneficiary of your youth ministry with the Jenkins at Covenant. What great times! And Saturday evening I found myself speechless as I listened to four godly young men share thoughts of their father. There absolutely could not have been a better testimony of the Dan’s life. You all remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Jan,

We were so sorry to hear about Dan’s passing. We have been camping and didn’t hear the news until today. We know that the coming days and months will be hard for you and your family. Please know that you all will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We will always remember Dan as a humble man who loved his God. He is now rejoicing and praising his God in heaven.

Blessings,
David & Sandy

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Jan, I feel so sad for your loss, but at the same time I know Dan is in a much better place. He’s the big brother I met almost 50 years ago, that I never had. I wish I had 10% of the abilities to do some of the same things he has accomplished in his lifetime! All the people he has helped! You & your boys are and will be in my thoughts & prayers.
A huge tearfull hug to you from an old Lockport friend.
Best wishes to you, well, as best as they can be………..

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Hello, Jan, Duffy, Mark, Lori and families,
I was surprised to find this website while looking up friends from Lockport. I’m sorry about Dan’s battle; he was a great athlete and such an inspiration. Please know that you are all thought about kindly and I’ll pray for your strength through Jesus.
Love,
Deana

I like to imagine Dan smiling and dancing right now as He praises and worships the LORD!